31. DO SAME SEX MARRIAGES DESTROY GAY COMMUNITIES?

Famous M&M (Blue M&M & Red M&M (Right photo insert)) relationship ends in a nasty breakup! Blue M&M now seen here with his new Red Monster named Doyle & no longer with the Red M&M! 

(A non traditional relationship that society might not be ready to accept)

Being strictly monogamous or totally open or somewhere in the middle, for example monogamous except when on holidays or travelling then completely open & both parties have the option of having sex with anyone they want, are all options accepted and explored within the gay community. I do not want restrictions telling me what i can & cannot do. 

If we are gonna fight for something, then let's all fight together as a community and fight for something stronger than today's marriage that opens the door for everyone & heterosexual couples to have more progressive relationships!

What are we fighting about? Please read on.

The fight is not just about equality in marriage but should be more about equality & rights as Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual/Transgender/Intersex formed couples whatever that maybe, or three way relationships, or friends in life long companionships. I know fellas that are happy in three way relationships (Top, Bottom & Voyer that play with others that are into all three of them) but they will not turn up at a same sex marriage rally because those fighting for same sex relationships have put down what they have as being wrong & made them feel second rate because they do not have what hetrosexuals have in marriage which is a strictly monogamous relationship between only two people. Hetrosexuals do not get the option of having Open relationships like Gay fellas. There are swingers that exist in the hetrosexual world but they are frowned upon.

Either way we need equal rights. What if your loved one(s) were ill or sadly passing away & you had no say or no permission to see or be with him/her in their last hours? No permission to see them in Hospital? & simply because you were not classed as being their family? ...even though you have spent every night together or day together for more than a couple of years? Would a piece of paper change that? perhaps? Yes it is a start! What about next door neighbours that have grown old together & seen each other every day & looked after each other until hospitalised? Do they get to say goodbye to each other because legally they are not family?

What we should have done rather than fighting amongst each other is that we should have banded together like in the past & how the M&M's used to be together (Please see pic above), to fight for equal rights. For example we should have made the Mardi Gras parade, which was originally a rally to fight for equal rights, & first Parade was about legalising sex for same sex couples! With that in mind we should have made it compulsory for every single float including the dikes on bikes to somehow gain the attention of the queen. If a Parade participant was not attempting to gain the attention of the Queen then i would not allow them to go up Oxford street. For example the Dikes on Bikes could all be wearing Tiaras, & the indigenous (Please click here for more information) float that has a massive serpent could then they could have the Queen riding the Serpent, & dancing boys doing the Queens famous Royal wave.

The reason for this (having every participating, in Sydney Mardi Gras, float trying to gain the Queens attention) is that after studying Constitutional Law (Please click here for more information) I know that even if a law act goes through a referendum & through parliament & the Governor General signs on behalf of the queen to give the Law Act Royal Accent (Enactment of Law Act & commences to be in operation) is that the Queen has overall power to make or break a law(s). Yes if that Act, in force, if the Queen does not like the Act she can have it completely scrapped & back to the drawing board, no questions asked & she can make full Law Acts just as easily. Yes the Queen can even change the Constitution. Yes she has that much power. 

Since Great Britain had same sex marriages (Commitment Ceremonies) which have the same equality to traditional heterosexual marriages for Same Sex Couples, introduced back in 2006, as mentioned in Paragraphs above the Queen could easily legalise Same Sex Marriages, right away in Australia, like they initiated year 2006. Simply get the Queens attention & she could easily have changed things way back in 2006/2007 as Same Sex Legal Rights in action in the UK. JOB DONE! 

Luckily, although not until December 2017, Same sex marriages where finally introduced in Australia.